How often have you had a conversation that starts with "I'm
concerned?" These words are a pleasant lead into a tough conversation.
The salve is applied before the wound has happened.
It is ok to start with the matter at hand—"Bob, I am no longer
confident in your ability to lead the team..." Get to the point up front
and focus on the objective. Bob, I need to see improvement in these
areas (be specific), in this time frame (give a timetable to show
improvement). Failing this we will review our options for future
assignment (or appropriate action).
Bob may very well be a great person. His ability to get the job done
is not evident. Being concerned that he may not be up to the task leaves
a door open for discussion. What you will hear, in this case, his
argument why he is capable of performing and delivering a job well done.
Ladies and Gentlemen, leaders, there is power in being to the point.
Focus on the actions or lack of action, not the person. In the end, all
leaders must accomplish the mission/task. Your boss expects that of you
as does your boss' boss expect mission accomplishment from him or her.
It is good to be concerned. It is better to be to the point.
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